It is not that simple
The love with its beauty, not complicated, does not create problems. Simply find solutions.
Love has its magic, the meeting of its lightness with the words enables us to dream the impossible, want to fight for something that can make us go through certain experiences that more forward will leave our hearts. Love is the illusion that makes us believe in human perfection, makes us float in the clouds when it comes to meeting the man of our dreams.
The impossible, open paths to the imagination, romanticism that keeps us alive, is pure and simply the fantasy of fairy tales have seen in childhood. But when we look around us and see our reality, everything happens in reverse: the beautiful we want is an ugly we reject, Prince we want is a sapo, and perfection we dream there.
Create a fantasy within us when it comes to love or find someone who matches us with the same intensity, it becomes a daily struggle, a game against time. When we find or realize our dreams more than perfect, and found that an ugly duckling is in love with us, simply deal with certain ignorance or look more friendly way, no chance to get a possible relationship. We are like that, we like to complicate our wanting.
Blindness for perfection is so great that we are unable to see what is in front of us. We're not as able to remember the story of the ugly duckling, no one liked him, did not give anything for him, only to be ugly. Time passed and the ugly duckling turned into a beautiful swan, which all do not realize and were surprised at their transformation.
There is, happily ever after in our reality, much less live in a fairy tale like in the stories. There sharing moments, respect the person as they are, accept their differences and improve their imperfections and not punctuate them as do most of the time, it wears. Do not make many choices, give opportunity to find love in the true hidden beauty that he loves you indeed.
If you want a beautiful love story, open hand be demanding that does not exist, idealize perfect men only makes us not want to see what's in front of us. Do not look for the word perfection, the emotion felt in every word written in a simple card or book. The beauty and intelligence, do not go together, but the truth and simplicity are always hand in hand.
Who ever suffered for love, not loved in life and wanted to be with someone. He who never passed the stage of pain and suffering, did not live this moment, will not be able to love and build a beautiful love story.
Remember: Every ugly duckling turns into a beautiful swan, the treasure you want to find, in what can that ever dared look different. Give value to those who love truth, love and the man of your dreams may be in the imperfections.
Pilar Mariosa Bastos da Silva

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